Impulse Sex
Ξ October 23rd, 2008 | → | ∇ Sextoys Articles |
There’s a lot of talk out there about long, all night sex, and the need for extensive foreplay to get things going, the need for sex toys and switching positions thirty five times to lengthen the session. Now, there’s nothing wrong with extensive sexual escapades, they definitely have their place in any sexually active relationship. Still, let’s not forget about the lesser known champion, the ‘quickie’.
Many men think that nearly all women don’t want these hurried romps, or that women aren’t fully contented by them. This idea, as unfortunately common as it is, is far from the truth. But on the opposite side of that coin, quite a few women out there assume that asking for a crazy sexy get-together against the fridge or in a clean public restroom will make them seem sleazy or dirty. I beg of you, don’t think this way. Men that will look down on a woman for wanting to express her sexuality and her desire for him in non-standard ways are out of the ordinary.
The average woman, while pleasuring herself, can climax in less than three minutes, that same woman can reach the same goal in just under 8 minutes from intercourse. Add in the emotional strength of a quick romp in the back seat of a car, and the additional excitement of the possibility of being seen will often assist those participating in reaching the final outcome even faster. This means that in most cases women are plenty happy at the end of a fast ‘meeting’, and even if there isn’t time for him or her to reach orgasm it’s still a thrill and can add some fun to your day.
Sex toys can also enhance the ‘quickie’ experience as these sessions don’t always have to be 100% unplanned. For couples who are experienced users of sex toys, and even those who wants to try something new, keep a mini sex toy or 2 with you next time you go out for the day. Keeping a travel sized, discrete sex toy on you, such as a vibrating bullet or finger vibrator, gives you many more options for entertainment when the feeling presents itself. There are sex toys that vibrate (which should typically only be used in areas where the ambient noise level is high which can easily be used on women and men, there are also ‘fingers’ which are usually silicone or rubber and are placed over the end of your finger and are bumpy or have ridges for extra fun. In addition, you can find sex toys for use on men such as special hand wraps used to increase stimulation by hand.
There are many popular places to get busy, including:
• In your kitchen
• In the back of a truck
• In a supply closet
• In a public restroom (one that’s not dirty)
• In the forest while hiking
• Just about anywhere you get the urge!
So don’t forget, particularly for all the bashful ladies out there, voice yourself, let your partner know if you’re feeling frisky and let those creative juices flow! Quite often the best sex can be quick sex in a random, interesting place at 4:14 p.m.
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