| In spite of a widespread, but wrong opinion that strap-on dildos are for lesbians, the truth is – anybody can use these bold sex toys irrespective of their gender and sexual orientation. It is a wonderful alternative to spice up your regular sexual routine and give your partner – and yourself – a whole new experience full of fun, excitement and deep intimacy.
What are the advantages of a strap-on dildo over a regular hand-operated one? While you use a dildo mostly for solo masturbation, a strap-on is a partner play sex toy that provides a completely different experience, one that produces a unique erotic connection for the couple.
Here are some of the reasons why strap-on dildos are such turn-ons:
• Strap-on dildos free the hands, allowing them to be used to touch in all sorts of other sensual ways.
• Strap-on dildos allow you to use your hips and therefore have greater leverage, providing for a more intense experience.
• Strap-on dildos invite gender-bending. Women can play at being men, thrusting their hips during intercourse the way men do.
• Strap-ons allow men to play at having two erections simultaneously. Some men enjoy using strap-on dildos that are noticeably larger or smaller than their own erections. In addition, having two penises opens the possibility of double penetration, both vaginal and anal at the same time.
• Strap-on dildos can help compensate for erection problems. If a man has erectile dysfunction, a strap-on can provide a mutually satisfying way for the couple to experience penile-vaginal intercourse.
• For those who enjoy lingerie or “dressing up”, strap-on doldos provide a unique visual treat that many lovers find exciting.
• The feel of wearing a strap-on harness can provide unique erotic sensations even without the dildo. Some women enjoy wearing harnesses alone under their clothing to raise the erotic temperature.
• Strap-on dildos can deepen couple intimacy. Many couples don’t talk much about their sex lives; they just do it. Because strap-on sex encourages sexual experimentation, couples need to discuss how they want to enjoy these new possibilities.
This encourages partners to communicate more openly about sex, which can enhance intimacy and be highly arousing.
So, if you feel adventurous and want to introduce a new sex toy to your relationship – either heterosexual or homosexual – try a strap-on dildo and enjoy a whole new dimension of your sex activity.
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